Read here: if a man hasn’t married you, but already knows everything about your body, every curve, every weakness, every position, then it’s time to pause and reflect. You may think you're building a bond, but what you're doing is giving out something sacred without a guarantee of commitment. And the painful truth? Many men will enjoy the benefits of a wife without ever becoming a husband.


You’re giving your heart, body, and soul to someone who hasn’t given you a name, a ring, or a future. My sister, that’s not love, that’s exploitation dressed as affection. When a man has explored you fully and you’ve given your all emotionally and physically, he may begin to see no reason to pursue anything deeper.


After all, what else is there to fight for? Don’t let sweet words deceive you. If he truly loves and values you, he will protect your dignity, not exploit your vulnerability.


Love is patient. Love waits. Love honors. A man who intends to marry you won’t rush you into acts meant for the covenant of marriage. Don’t settle for temporary pleasure that ends in permanent pain. Respect yourself enough to say no. Your worth is far above rubies, and the right man will see that without needing to taste it all first.


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